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The Spirit of Play ...continued

What if you are not planning on taking a foreign language class and you still want to tap into the “Spirit of Play?”  You could sign up for a theater improvisation class, watch funny movies or TV shows, take up Jazzercise, or read funny books. I have a better suggestion for you! And it’s free! Play with your family!

My family is full of very creative people. We love to laugh and have fun when we’re together-except that we live in different parts of the country. My parents are retired in Florida after being missionaries in Brazil. Like me, my brother and sister are married and have two children each. I live in Minnesota, my brother lives in Virginia, and my sister lives in Florida near my parents.

One year I decided that we should have a family reunion. After much planning, fourteen of us met at a lodge in the Shenendoah Mountains of Virginia. As we drove into the parking lot of our resort and greeted each other with big hugs, my sister announced that all of us were expected to put on skits on our last night. She added that her family had already begun rehearsing!

Coincidentally, there was a small stage and amphitheater in front of the lodge. The show that we put on for each other was filled with hilarity, songs, dancing, poetry, and skits. My sister’s family did a finger-snapping, lip-sync and dancing rendition of “We are Family,” and at the end, invited the rest of us on stage to join in the dancing. Then my brother’s family did a skit that had us all rolling in the aisles. They had gone to Universal Studios and learned how to slap and punch (pretending) so they did a Nazi general routine complete with German accent about why their children were so well behaved. My family wore crazy clothing, played kazoos and did silly movements accompanied by a music tape called “Doot Doodley Doo.” My mother recited a funny poem she had learned in elocution class as a child. Finally, my father, who had never sung a solo in all the years we’d known him, sang something he said he had been wanting to sing all those years, but we kids would always burst out laughing when he opened his mouth. He made us promise not to laugh. For once we didn’t obey!

That was the first of many reunions. One year later for my parent’s 50th anniversary we all went to the beach for a weekend, and staged a Grand Ball in our condominium living room. We played Strauss music, and waltzed around the room wearing New Year’s Eve paper hats, pearls, long gloves, or bow ties and cummerbunds with our shorts. My brother and his wife performed a knee-slapping, laugh-til-you-cry skit of memories of my parent’s years in Brazil as missionaries. My husband and I designed and printed a daily gazette with photos from the past, silly want ads, and a complete list of nonsensical activities as a parody of a cruise ship schedule: Kissing on the Beach, Tofu and Chocolate Tasting by the Pool, Romance Breakfast. At the end, my sister presented a musical slide show with memories from the past that had us crying tears of love and emotion.

Then there was the year my husband and I rented and dressed up in chicken suits and met my sister’s family at the Minneapolis airport as they were passing through. We walked through the airport clucking loudly and greeting everyone in sight.

A few days before my mother’s 75th birthday I flew to Florida and showed up on her doorstep with my sister. We were wearing wigs, messy makeup with bright red lipstick, and tacky outfits. When she answered the doorbell, I stammered with a fake foreign accent “My carrr is brreeaking down, please to use your telofon?” She looked fearful, refused to let us in, and just as she was closing the door, I pleaded, “Pleesse, mam, I hef some apples forr you from Minnesota!” and handed her a bag of apples from Minnesota-her favorite annual birthday treat. We had a delightful visit and I left, supposedly for a conference in Miami. In actuality I went to my sister’s home in a nearby city, and then a few days later, we returned to my Mom’s. First we picked up my brother at the airport then I was dropped off at a gas station. My sister went to pick up my mother in her van, “to buy dinner,” and my brother hopped out and sneaked into the back yard while my mother was getting into the van.  My brother picked up my dad, put on costumes, and drove to a local convenience store. My sister then stopped at the gas station where I was waiting, dressed in jeans, a cap, and a pencil-line mustache drawn over my lip. As my mother and sister pulled into the station, I came over and began cleaning the windshield. My mother never even noticed me, until I started wiping the windshield with my sleeve. That caught her attention, so I walked to her side of the window and asked, with a Southern accent, “’Mam, do you want me to clean yore glasses?” She recognized me and exclaimed, “I thought you went to Miami!” I climbed into the van. A few minutes later we spotted the convenience store and I announced I needed to get some bottled water.”  There, in front of the store, were two strange figures, a hippie with sunglasses, a long black curly wig and a Hawaiian shirt, and a Franciscan priest in a brown hooded robe, and a fluffy white beard. My sister and I jumped out and joined the two as they turned their sign, “We will work for food” to read, “Happy Birthday, Mom,” and we three all started playing the birthday song on kazoos. My mom declared that to be her favorite birthday in 75 years!

Our last family reunion was in Minneapolis, where I live, and included a couple who had flown up from Brazil. The husband is like the son my parents almost adopted when they were missionaries.  As each group arrived at the airport, my husband and I greeted them in funny hats, wigs, and Groucho glasses. We passed out similar outfits for each arriving group to wear to greet the next group. Our laughter brightened other passengers’ faces as they passed by.

What would it take for you to put that sense of discovery, laughter, silliness, play, imagination, into your work place, your community, your home, marriage, or your family? How about buying coloring books or blank sheets of paper, and crayons or markers, and spending an extra few minutes after dinner just drawing and coloring? Why not have a skit night, or a night when everyone dresses up as a favorite character in a book, video, or movie? Or put on funny hats, wigs, or glasses when you go out to the store, and wave to everyone who notices you!

Create the Spirit of Play in your life!  You will be richly rewarded.

Author Arlene Jullie, is the author of the new book Quick-Start Spanish: Everything You Need to Know Before You Start or Restart Spanish.  It is the opportunity for anyone interested in Spanish or in how languages are different from English to sing, color, draw, play games, laugh, and have fun while discovering the secrets of Spanish. The warning on the back cover says: “This book will not teach you Spanish! But it will decode the Spanish language, giving you access to secrets that will help you learn Spanish more easily… It is an invaluable aid for anyone who is about to start a Spanish class or a self-study program; for anyone who has already begun and is feeling totally lost; or for anyone who has tried to learn the language before and is apprehensive about restarting.”

 

 

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